THEY ARE ALL OVER I KNOW A FEW

Whats up peeps today i cover a topic that is very delicate, but worth writing because you can use it to turn what may appear to be a bad situation into a positive one. Some livid immature people usually have loud mouths and are very negative( I know A few myself). For whatever reason, they decide they don't like something you have done, something you have said or just take offense at you in general. 

This kind of immature people use strong language which is overly negative and very accusatory. They often lack maturity which compounds your frustrations because you can't respond to them with maturity, they will just throw more accusations at you without acknowledging your point of view. You can't compete with them by arguing because that's what they specialize in.

HOW TO DEAL WITH THIS KIND OF IMMATURE PEOPLE

In most cases it's best to just not respond unless of course you have done something wrong and you need to apologize. You are better off letting your friends and supporters back you up and just ignore the livid people altogether. The negativity the people is generating will (unfortunately) come back at them and they will suffer more as a result, probably leading them to attacking more people, creating a cycle of negativity. You want to avoid getting caught up in it. Some people will be just plain rude and rowdy.

HOW DO YOU RESPOND?

The issue we face is how to respond to comments that are negative.

- You could delete them.
- You could block them.
- You could censor them.
- You could respond in anger.
- You could respond in kind.

"IF YOU CAN'T SAY ANYTHING NICE DON'T SAY ANYTHING AT ALL"

You should know that phrase - it's one of those our mothers teach us when young. It's perfect for situations like this, apply it to yourself when dealing with this people. Unruly people who make fun of others usually have a low self-image. If that doesn't work and their inappropriate and childish behaviour continues, just ignore them! They trying to intimidate you . I always believe in my experience these people are hard to stop. You can end up looking like the baddie if you retort with something really scathing at them.. so just simply ignore those sick childish silly immature foolish people!

TURN NEGATIVITY INTO A POSITIVE

The technique to deal with negative comments is to use them to show how mature you are and demonstrate your credibility. If you respond to negative comments without anger, with no negative emotion and with a calm "your side of the story" response, you will gain the respect of your friends  and even have the immature ass even more livid lol.

In most cases this people will end up making themselves look a lot worse than you simply because of how they express themselves. When you compare a person who is rational, not overly emotional and calm against someone who is attacking with highly charged emotional accusations, it's pretty clear who comes out looking the best.

But you can be confident if you stick to your true self and remain calm, you will come out on top in their eyes. Better still, you will enhance your reputation and credibility even further, despite the best efforts of the people to bring you down, which I think is a lovely piece of irony - the person who attacks you ends up boosting your public standing because they give you an opportunity to show what kind of person you really are.